Ⅰ. Personality & Psychological Aspects
- Emotional Turbulence: Mood swings are extreme—at times overly sensitive and fragile, at others irritable and explosive. You may fall into prolonged depression over an unintentional remark, or lash out over trivial matters.
- Overthinking & Mental Exhaustion: Constantly ruminating over past mistakes and obsessing about future uncertainties—losing sleep worrying about tomorrow’s meeting details, feeling drained during the day.
- Lack of Security: Habitually suspicious of others’ motives, unable to trust intimate relationships—for example, questioning a partner’s whereabouts repeatedly when they’re late, or secretly checking their phone.
- Indecisiveness: Stuck in endless weighing of options—like hesitating for months between two job offers, only to miss both opportunities.
- Escapism: Avoiding or procrastinating under pressure—like delaying a project out of fear of failure until the deadline looms and collapsing under stress.
- Overreliance on Others: Lacking confidence to solve problems alone, needing constant confirmation from others—even for small decisions, like being unable to order food without someone else deciding.
- Pessimism: Magnifying negative outcomes—like giving up on planning an event because you keep imagining “what if no one shows up.”
- Concealing True Thoughts: Rarely expressing your real feelings, leaving others to guess—for example, staying silent and giving the cold shoulder when angry instead of explaining.
- Immersed in Fantasy: Spending too much time imagining unrealistic scenarios—like daydreaming “what if I won the lottery,” and neglecting real life.
- Severe Self-Doubt: Even after achieving goals, focusing only on flaws—like questioning whether a different plan would have worked better instead of enjoying your success.
Ⅱ. Interpersonal Relationships
- Hot-and-Cold Social Style: Alternating between overly enthusiastic (sending dozens of messages daily) and suddenly distant (ignoring friends for weeks).
- Overly Demanding Emotionally: Frequently venting negative feelings to others for hours on end without caring about their state.
- Blurry Boundaries: Over-involving yourself in others’ lives—prying into their personal matters or making decisions for them.
- Misinterpreting Neutral Cues: Seeing neutral comments as hostility—like taking “this plan needs revisions” as a personal attack and picking a fight.
- Passive and Thin-Skinned in Social Settings: Never initiating invitations and cutting ties completely after a single rejection.
- Overly Controlling in Intimacy: Demanding real-time updates of your partner’s whereabouts, restricting their social circle, forbidding them to communicate with opposite-sex colleagues.
- Lack of Constructive Expression in Teams: Never speaking up in meetings, responding only with “whatever,” yet complaining in private.
- Drawn to Negative People: Gravitate toward those who complain and spread negativity, amplifying your own anxiety.
- Holding Grudges: Harboring resentment for years over small slights.
- Excessive People-Pleasing: Compromising yourself endlessly to gain approval—like forcing yourself to drink with clients late into the night despite hating it.
Ⅲ. Career & Finances
- Uncertain Career Path: Frequently switching industries—teacher to salesperson to content creator—never accumulating expertise.
- Procrastination: Waiting until the last moment to act, resulting in sloppy, criticized work.
- Lack of Goals and Execution: Making countless plans but never following through.
- Blind and Greedy Investments: Wanting low risk yet high returns, falling for scams like pyramid schemes.
- Financial Instability: Alternating between unexpected windfalls (like winning small lotteries) and sudden losses (like being scammed), leaving finances unbalanced.
- Emotionally Driven Decisions: Deliberately delaying tasks from a critical boss, causing project delays.
- Inability to Say No: Taking on endless additional work, overloading yourself and working late to exhaustion.
- Overly Rash or Overly Cautious in Business: Either launching a business without preparation, or missing opportunities due to fear of risk.
- Sensitive About Pay & Complaining Often: Constantly comparing your salary to others, creating a negative atmosphere.
- Chaotic Side Hustles: Juggling five side gigs but failing to focus, earning only pocket money from each.
Ⅳ. Health
- Frequent Urinary Issues: Recurrent infections, frequent urination disrupting sleep.
- Dampness & Heaviness: Oily, acne-prone skin, thick tongue coating, sticky stools, feeling heavy even in summer.
- Reproductive Health Issues: For women, prolonged or painful periods; for men, persistent prostatitis.
- Obvious Edema: Puffy eyes in the morning, swollen calves in the afternoon.
- Sleep Disorders: Difficulty falling asleep, restless dreams, waking with a racing heart.
- Weak Digestion: Easily upset by cold or greasy food, fluctuating weight.
- Joint Pain: Knees and back aching worse on rainy days.
- Cold Body: Cold hands and feet even in summer, feeling chilled even with warm drinks.
- Chronic Fatigue: Exhausted even after 8 hours of sleep, out of breath after mild activity.
- Declining Memory: Forgetting things you just planned to do.
Ⅴ. Family & Life Management
- Damp, Dark Home Environment: Moldy corners despite ventilation, clothes remain damp for days.
- Erratic Schedule: Sleeping at 2 AM, waking at noon, irregular meals.
- Silent Family Conflicts: Cold wars instead of communication—like sleeping in separate rooms for a week after a fight.
- Overindulgence or Overcontrol of Children: Either giving in to every whim, or forbidding all freedom.
- Messy Home: Dirty dishes piled high, musty smell, moldy clothes.
- Hoarding: Refusing to throw away anything, making it hard to find things.
- Unplanned Spending: Splurging at the beginning of the month, borrowing money by the end.
- Neglecting Family Rituals: Dismissing birthdays and anniversaries as “pointless.”
- Estranged from Parents: Barely calling them, glued to your phone when visiting.
- Neglecting Pets: Rarely cleaning or grooming them, even when sick.
Ⅵ. Other Aspects
- Water-Related Mishaps While Traveling: Frequently getting caught in storms, flooded roads, or canceled trips due to typhoons.
- Short-Lived Hobbies: Buying supplies for hobbies but quickly abandoning them.
- Vague Communication: Speaking in circles instead of asking directly.
- Poor Sense of Numbers: Regularly making mistakes when paying.
- Terrible Sense of Direction: Getting lost even in familiar areas.
- Impulsive, Blind Spending: Stockpiling discounted goods you never use up.
- Poor Crisis Management: Panicking during small emergencies, like not knowing what to do when the water is cut off.
- Overly Sensitive to Weather: Mood dips on cloudy days, unwilling to go out when it rains.
- Addicted to Electronics: Spending 8+ hours on your phone daily, eyesight declining.
- Lack of Time Management: Always late, earning nicknames like “the procrastinator.”